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[quote=Anonymous]OP here - I am definitely planning to say something to the nanny, I was just trying to figure out what exactly other than "Did you ask your previous employer before listing her as a reference?" or maybe "You need to find other references". She didn't provide any other references and I know that most of her other childcare experience has family. Thank you for the suggestion of "Your references were not what we were hoping for." which is exactly the truth. I agree that the reference was cowardly to not confront the nanny with the issues at the time, but I also got the impression that she was surprised by my call so I'm guessing that the nanny didn't contact her beforehand to see if she felt comfortable providing a reference. I don't think she was lying to me, just that she preferred to avoid confrontation so she just chose not to ever address concerns as they arose. [/quote]
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