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[quote=Anonymous]This version is slightly different from what you posted on the general forum, OP. Since you had scheduled your hysterectomy months in advance and must have known that you would need several days for recovery, you should have arranged childcare either with your live-in distant relative or someone else, instead of hoping she would offer to work the weekend for free. And seeing as it's the weekend, can't your husband keep an eye on the children while you shower? Even if he works 24/7 taking a few minutes off should be okay. From the info you posted I gather that your distant relative nanny did all you asked her to do, namely cleaning the house for you, knew that your husband was home on the weekend and would be able to lend you a hand, and was off. I don't see anything wrong with it. I feel like if you never asked her for any help around surgery time at all, she would probably have asked if you needed anything, but since you did ask her she assumed it was all the help you needed.[/quote]
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