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[quote=Anonymous]I'm a nanny who is following this post, and I may have missed this, but why do you want to keep this nanny? What's it about her that you are willing to change so much to make things work? Nanny- family relationships go both ways . What is she doing to improve the situation? Does she see there is a problem. You are prepared to stretch your budget to pay her more because she wants to live out even though your needs require a live in. You are going to pay her more even though she will be working less, and she is working less when you could still use her those hours. You are making these accommodations for her and she's spending less time with your kids, and when she is with them by your admission she's not great with them in fact she is rude to them. Which isn't OK. Plenty of nannies transition from infants to preschoolers without taking it out on the kids. Why do you want to keep her? I'm asking honestly. Is it just because she's been with you 3 years? [/quote]
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