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[quote=Anonymous]I'm a nanny but I work predominantly with infants and thought I would be good to answer.

Outside: I think it depends on your comfort level. Some parents want an hour or two for 1-2 walks for fresh air and some want you out all day. I worked for one family whos child would only sleep in the stroller in the beginning. We spent 4-5 hours outside walking while he slept. This was dead of winter with 20-30 degree temps. I personally think two hours is plenty. A few walks and a baby class should be sufficient. I take my current charge ( 17wks) out for a 20-30 min morning walk, 30-45 walk in afternoon and an hour baby class once a week. You choose your comfort level.

Phone: I never use my phone unless the child is napping or its my employers calling and texting. Her being on the phone is unacceptable. I would tell her no talking or give a minimum of time (5 tops). I spend majority of wake time engaging my charge with tummy time, reading, toys, music, singing, etc. He gets independent play on his playmat ( in eye sight) while I make a bottle, eat a snack, etc. That's no more than 10mins until he starts fussing for me.

Naps: If you specifically told her the baby needs to nap in the crib, she needs to respect that. The only time I didn't follow that rule was when my former charge was very ill and vomiting. I was afraid he would choke laying down and he wanted that extra comfort so I held him for the day. MB had no problem with that and was appreciative of that.

I feel some parents are too lenient. This is your child and your home. I wouldn't bargain with these rules. Tell her no phone, put the baby in crib at each nap, and give a limit of outside time you feel comfortable with. If she still won't respect your wishes- replace her with a nanny who will. [/quote]

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