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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]MB here.  I would put it on your resume and just say that it was a temporary position.

If a potential employer asks if they can speak with your current/temporary employer you can tell them a careful version of the truth - that you had made them an 8 week commitment, but when their circumstances changed they offered you a permanent postiion.  The fit wasn't right for you but the employer was unhappy that you declined.  Then practice that answer leading directly into something positive you can say about what will be the right fit for you and what you see potentially in the position for which you're employing.

Assuming you have other good references from long-term positions I wouldn't be scared away by this.[/quote]

Thank you! I was thinking of doing exactly that. I was going to tell prospective employers that I honored my commitment but they weren't a good fit for me, so I'm looking for a family who is a better fit, etc. Luckily I have worked for great nanny families and they all have given me great references. Plus, 8 weeks isn't very long and most don't use references for positions under 3 months. [/quote]

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