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[quote=Anonymous]As a nanny, when I leave a job I always talk to the kids about it and explain that there will be some things about me that they miss, but some things that the new persondoes better or that they like better about her.  Give the kids permission to be sad about the loss but also help them look for the good.  The overlap idea is a good one.  Any chance both nannies could do a Saturday together?

Other than that, I think the best thing would be 
1) have a clear, detailed contract--always a good idea but also helps smooth the transition so that new nanny knows your policy on various things
2) day one mom/dad is in charge of kids and nanny is just shadowing you (be clear on this with kids and nanny) so that you can model your discipline style/expectations without her having to discipline kids in your presence on day one.  Spend the day doing a boring basic version of your routine, plus driving around to local points of interest (park, grocery store, etc.)

Day two, you do morning routine together and help nanny get them out the door for a fun activity (new park, museum, etc.) or set up for a fun craft if that is more her style.  Discuss with nanny what she has planned, but let her have time where you are not there to bond with the kids over something fun, then you help with lunch/nap routine, but let her get them up and play in the afternoon.

Day three-on plan to have new nanny do it all and just be close to your phone so she can call/text with questions.[/quote]

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