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[quote=Anonymous]I started my new job two weeks ago with my charge ego is now 14 weeks. She naps a lot ( that's a given) but will only nap with someone holding her. She will not nap in the crib, stroller, carseat, bassinet, carrier, pack n play or anything else. She sleeps in co-sleeper at night or with MB in her bed. I've tried putting her down but no matter how asleep, she screams bloody murder within a few minutes. MB told me she has never napped anywhere but her or DB's arms. Now I have things like baby laundry, bottle washing, and light housekeeping I need to do during naptimes. Well I can't get anything done be because I'm constantly holding my charge. MB got mad that I asked to stay a few minutes later to clean up. She said that's my job during the day. I adressed the issue of me holding my charge and can't get anything done. MB said no fussing for my charge so I automatically have to pick her up and that she " isn't ready" to nap on her own. I suggested swaddling or using the swing but MB said she doesn't want her dependent on that. I politely told MB that this isn't a phase that she will grow out of. She is accustomed to napping being held and we have to do something to get her to nap. Not just for my responsibilities but because its the best thing for her. She refuses to do so. MB gets mad that I leave my charge on the playmat to wash dishes and fold clothes ( in eye sight) because I'm not " active enough". I do so much with my charge but I can't get housework done if she has to be held 24/7 and MB won't let her play independently. What should I do?[/quote]
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