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[quote=Anonymous]At my former job, I really took over everything for my MB--DB had medical issues that made it impossible for him to do much physically and also was kind of checked out (he has now found a different medication and I'm glad to say is finally present with the kids). For 4 years, I basically was June Cleaver--ran the household, and managed everything to do with kids. The kids and I are very close--we went on roads trips cross country, I planned for every Christmas and birthday, etc. I still am their #1 emergency contact and have full medical authorization for their kids and if MB and DB died tomorrow I would have guardianship. I get that that level of trust is rare, but my new job is just so different. My current MB questions almost everything and I often feel that she looks down on me for being uneducated (didn't finish college). I often feel like she blames me for things that either are not my fault or that are nobody's fault (like on a day when DC didn't nap well, she said that it must be because I didn't give him enough stuffed animals to hold--he has 10! The difference between 10 and 11 is not going to wake him up." She also said that she was hiring me to make aure they get active time and time outside, but I have only been allowed to drive them 2 X in a year. She says that anywhere without valet parking isn't safe because they don't listen and hold hands, but doesn't believe me when I explain that they do stay with ME (but run from her). I am getting burnt out and am sad but I just don't know if this job is a good fit. :([/quote]
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