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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I've been a live in nanny for over 10 years. In the beginning I try to spend extra time with the family to kind of get a feel for what is expected. For example my last family expected me to clean up the kitchen after every meal even on days I didn't work. While I found this annoying and I felt taken advantage of I didn't want to rock the boat. Typically though I just come and go on weekends and if she has a separate entrance you really shouldn't see her much. I think sitting down with her and having a 1 month how is it going meeting sounds great. Then very carefully saying that while you are more then welcome to make Meals in the kitchen [b]you would rather her not linger there all day. [/quote][/b] This would be so rude. There is NO way to say this tactfully. If a family told me this, I would say screw you and leave. :shock: [/quote]
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