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[quote=Anonymous]My opinion is that you would be out of line to address this issue now.

That ship has sailed already.

Everything should have been discussed prior. I mean it....EVERYTHING. It's completely unfair to just assume that she would be gone, then be annoyed because your assumptions turned out wrong.

As a live-in, your home is her home now too and she is free to do as she pleases unless you had directly told her that she cannot do such and such.

As her boss and landlord now, it is illegal and unethical to ask her to please vacate the premises on her days off just so you can have "family time." Can you imagine if all landlords asked this of their tenants? Yes...Only in a perfect world.

Either suck it up and learn to deal. Take your family out on excursions if her presence is such an issue.

Or let her go and go for a live-out.

But either way, the nanny is not at fault here. You are. One hundred percent.

She has done nothing wrong. She has not done anything that she wasn't supposed to do.[/quote]

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