Reply to Is this ok?

Forum Index » General Discussion

Reply to "Is this ok?"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]MB here, so I asked my nanny to bring my two children, ages three and 17 months, to our town's fair. My three year old told me that her fiancé was there as well. Now, have no problem with him, he actually comes over my house for parties and such and my kids love him. When I asked my nanny about it she told me that he was going there anyways and that he likes spending time with the kids. She said that she also needed an extra set of hands and eyes so she could go on rides with my 3 year old. This bothers me for some reason, but at the same time it is a public place and the kids are always cared for. What do you guys think of the situation?[/quote]

Would not make a big deal out of it, but would ask the nanny to in the future just give you a heads up first, or at least let you know at the end of the day if they met up with anyone. You shouldn't be hearing it from the 3 year old. I'm a nanny, and if I know we're meeting up with someone I know, I try to let MB know beforehand. On the occasions where I have genuinely bumped in to someone or coordinated last minute plans, I make sure to give the rundown at the end of the day "We bumped in to my friend Jenny and her little girl at the park so we decided to get lunch with them today!" etc. It makes it seem sneaky and deceptive when the child is the one to relay this info, so I try and avoid that.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics