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[quote=Anonymous]On her last day, I would probably mention some of the issues you had over the summer. If she decides to work somewhere else next summer or take PT work through the school year, this would be helpful to her in knowing where she went wrong. I always think that problems should be mentioned so that she realizes where she did go wrong and that it could be worked on in the future if the person really likes this type of work. If she asks you to be a reference, I would say that you will not write a letter. If she is crazy enough to ask you to accept phone calls for being a reference, I might go ahead and say sure, and then just be honest to the people that call you about your issues with her work. By that point, you telling her what you didn't like and if she is still pushing for a reference, then she is asking for it and honestly kind of deserves to have other families hear about her real work instead of you just not being a reference and them not knowing until it is too late for them.[/quote]
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