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[quote=Anonymous]MB here. Some good advice above. I'd recommend a direct, calm conversation with her. I'd also put that in writing "Just to confirm what we discussed earlier, it is very important to us that the kids not be exposed to tv, that they get careful, attentive supervision and interactive play time with you, and that we are all working together to teach them how to be well socialized, creative kids. That is why your active engagement matters so much to us." I would also see if you can build some structure in that encourages the interactions you want, in ways she really needs to support. Are there library reading hours each week she can take the kids to? Can you sign them up for a class that's she's responsible for getting them to. If you can combine some critical feedback with some positive ideas for things you'd like her to be doing with the kids it might have a better result than criticism alone.[/quote]
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