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[quote=Anonymous]The rule should be that you ok wherever she takes the baby - in advance (at least until you have established clear boundaries about what you're comfortable with).

"Nanny, I'd like to talk about something that is making me uncomfortable.  I would prefer to know, in advance, if you wish to take the baby anywhere.  At some point I am sure we'll want the baby going to the library, the zoo, playgrounds, etc... but it is still too early for that.  I am uncomfortable not knowing where the baby is at any given time and would prefer that you stay with her at our house unless I ok it."

Then see how she responds.

It's also perfectly fine to say that you're a first time mother, and perhaps overprotective, but you still prefer that they stay at home, or only go places that you have okayed.

As the employer you need to be able to be clear and direct about your expectations.  You don't have to be unpleasant, but you do need to be clear, otherwise this kind of thing will just get worse, and become a bigger issue than it needs to be.

Good luck.[/quote]

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