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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is she doing good work while on the clock? That is all that matters.[/quote]

So OP shouldn't be concerned about her nannies safety?[/quote]

It is not her business. If nanny wants help she may ask for it. Otherwise it's rude to pry, especially if it is not effecting her work.[/quote]

No, it isn't rude to pry.  I hope you would have more concern if it was happening to one of your friends. But wait, it is rude to pry. Who cares if she is getting the crap beat out if her and the bf is telling her that he will kill her if she tries to get help.

Have a talk with the nanny. Let her know you have noticed the bruises and offer her support and let her know you are concerned. Do not bad mouth the bf, even if she ever does.  Yes, this really could just be from a class or rough sex, but it could be abuse. The hotline.org is a resource you could look at for ways to offer support.

I would rather have someone who thought they suspected something speak to me about something than have them idly watch by while something was going on because "it was rude to pry."
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