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[quote=Anonymous]I started out with a family 11 months ago. Everything seems to be going real well besides the few hiccups here and there. For the past few weeks I am starting to have a real hard time with both bosses. I care for a 10 months old and a 3.5 year old. My 10 month old isn't a textbook baby. He isn't one to take to any type of daily routine. MB really wants him on one so I customized a few routines that would work. She gives me he go on one of them. Works perfectly until the weekend. She doesn't follow it because of her social events. My charge has bad reflux and can't eat large quantized therefore eats every 2 hours except at night. MB wanted to change that which was a total disaster. I've been trying to accommodate her wishes but my charge is miserable. She has said on several occasions certain schedules aren't convenient for her weekends out and him eating often isn't as well. I feel MB is putting her social arrangements before her children which isn't fair at all. My other charge is a very easy 3.5 year old. She definitely " goes with the flow" of things. I feel bad for her. MB cares more about her events and won't follow routines because they don't fit into her plans. It's becoming increasingly frustrating. DB and MB are currently separated and its been tough enough for them to switch houses every few weeks. Any tips? I hope I am not judging but I feel my MB is very selfish and cares more about her errands/events than her children. [/quote]
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