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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you are right, MB is being rude and it is clear she does not think much of your contribution if she insults you for mentioning DC's major milestone. I limit my conversations with her to pleasantries. [b]Only when she asks you for details should you converse with her.[/b] Otherwise, you may continue to invite these jabs from her and continue to get your feelings hurt.

This type of MB does not know she is encouraging her nanny to job shop. Who wants to go into a job everyday feeling unwanted? I don't need my boss to like me but it goes a long way to making the job one that I just show up and do my job vs I show up willing to go above and beyond. I don't need to be "family" though. I love my charge but I also love giving him back at the end of the day![/quote]

This.  Be more aloof and distant with her while being extremely loving and attentive to the children in her presence (and always, actually).  You are not a puppy who needs affection and attention so don't act like one.  You do not need her to like.

"Give as good as you get" with your MB - I guarantee she will change her attitude.  People like that do not respond to more kindness or friendliness.  [/quote]

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