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[quote=Anonymous]I feel like for most of you, this is common sense.  However, no matter how close you are with your nanny do not get her involved in your personal life.  Do not tell her about your spousal disagreements.  Do not tell her your husbands dirty laundry.  Do not bitch to her about your husband, her boss.  Not only is it extremely disrespectful to your spouse, it's disrespectful to your nanny.

I can understand if you are frustrated with your relationship with your spouse.  I do.  Just keep it to yourself.  Or phone a friend.  Even if your nanny has been with you for years, she doesn't want to hear it.

Do you know what it's like going to work everyday knowing more about your bosses life than you do about your own parents?  My MB has tried to get me on her side of her super rocky marriage, but you know what.  I can't respect anyone who is willing to tell her spouses personal business to an employee.

I'm done.

I feel sorry for the kids, whom I love so much.  Living in a house that's falling to shambles.  However, you cannot make your nanny the peacekeeper.  That is too much stress.  I'm done covering for DB, when he doesn't do his job as a father and husband.  I'm also done with listening to MB bitch about it.  Done.

You lost me.  I loved your kids so much, and your family as well.  I just cannot take the brunt of your relationship troubles, and deal with my own.[/quote]

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