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[quote=Anonymous]You told your charge that that lady is big because she eats too much junk food and doesn't exercise. That is fat shaming. The fact that you told your charge that it's not nice to have that conversation to someone's face does not change the fact that you taught her that what we eat is responsible for how we look. The reality is that you have no idea why that woman is the size that she is. While I agree that you should be encouraging healthy eating habits in your charges, telling them that they had better eat healthy food and exercise when you tell them too so that they don't turn into a big gross fat person is not the way to go about that. The correct response to an inquiry of this kind is to simply say that there are lots of different types of bodies and that if your charge is curious about someone's body that she should save her question and ask you when that person is no longer around.[/quote]
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