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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What do you mean by "too many favors"? What kind of favors? [/quote] OP here: I live nearby my employers. I have been asked (and have often) run over on my days off to help out without being paid, doing the baby's laundry at my house on the weekends, changing my schedule without compensation, filling in for a few early morning hours on my day off when MB's MIL cannot watch the baby (paid but the hours are 6 to 9AM), etc. Things I will do without hesitation in an emergency or occasional favor basis. [/quote] You are the problem here. You are a total pushover. I am a first time mom and would NEVER think to ask my nanny to come over to "help" without paying for that help. I would NEVER ask the nanny to do the baby's laundry on the weekend (it's done during the week during working hours). You need to stop doing these things. They only keep asking because you keep saying yes. [/quote]
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