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[quote=Anonymous]MB here and I agree w/ 10:01 - this isn't a first time employer issue, it's a thoughtless employer issue. I would no more have asked these things of our nanny in her first month than I would now in her third year. You need to learn how to say no, and to be unavailable. Otherwise you are teaching this person that you can be taken advantage of, and clearly she is someone who will do that. Some people are just built that way - she's probably like that w/ friends and family also. It sounds like you take/do too much for too long until you get fed up. You need to learn to manage it before you get to that point. No one can make you do anything you don't want to but you will need to change the relationship now (harder to change than to set up better from the beginning - but you can do it differently with your next job). Good luck. But don't write this off to first time moms please.[/quote]
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