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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your current nanny has been aware of her short-comings for a long time, OP and you've discussed the issues with her many times.  I understand that you are sad to see her leave but remember that SHE made the choices not to correct her behavior.  Give her a nice recommendation based on her strengths (do not lie) and give her the severance agreed upon.

If you are the OP I think you are - your current nanny knows that she is being replaced right?  Let her say her good-byes to the kids and tell the kids that current nanny will keep in touch.  Your situation with current nanny is never going to get any better - it's time she moved on.  [/quote]

Yes, you are correct. She is aware that we have been looking for someone. It was somewhat of a mutual decision although she would never say outright that she didn't want the job, even when I asked her but she told me multiple times she would understand if we replaced her and even offered to help find her replacement. She does not know that we have found a replacement (I want the new nanny to come for one more trial day before we officially offer her the job). I plan to be fair to her though and give her enough time to find something else before the new nanny starts. We also have had many discussions about her behavior which has helped some issues but not all. She still is late about 50% of the time (which is actually an improvement) and she still can't work the schedule I need. [/quote]

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