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[quote=Anonymous]1) Is it normal to feel like this? yes. of course. Even if your head can think "this means my baby is well bonded to the nanny and that is a fantastic thing", your heart goes "wah!!! Baby seems to like her more than me!!". yup. it sucks. It also lessens as the baby gets older - it's bad at this age though. 2) Why does he pay so much attention to her, even when we are there? Because - and I say this with great compassion since I too am a FTWOHM - she is his primary caregiver for most of the week. She has more time and at this age that is what drives preferences. If you were a SAHM, baby would treat your DH the exact same way not because baby loves dad less but he's more familiar with the person he sees most of the time. Again, this will lessen as he gets older. It's a good sign for your baby, but that doesn't mean that it doesn't feel like a knife to the gut when it happens. [/quote]
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