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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You can try another sitter who might get everything done, but not be so great with your kids. Pick your priorities.[/quote] This is ridiculous. Anyone with half a brain can figure out how to help kids play independently so they can get a few chores done. OP, you're not looking for a "magical person" - you're looking for a competent nanny. If I were you, I'd have a conversation with her where you reiterate your expectations for what she gets done, and very clearly spell out what they are (2 loads of laundry a week washed, folded, and put away; dinner prepared according to instructions every night; remind children to clean up after themselves etc. etc.) Give her a week or two to prove that she actually cares, and then re-evaluate. Anyone who couldn't handle your requests clearly should not be a nanny. And I'm not saying this as a vindictive MB. I'm a nanny. I also manage to take care of laundry, cooking, and tidying despite having a very rambunctious 2yo underfoot. I love my job, but rocket science it is not.[/quote]
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