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[quote=Anonymous]I'm an employer. That's outrageous behavior by the parents unless they very clearly asked you in advance and you agreed. But in an attempt to give the parents the benefit of the doubt, are you by chance a bit meek, and have given them some type of an unclear answer that makes them think you are OK with this? I ask because you MUST be meek if you tolerate this when it's so obviously outrageous. We sometimes make this deal with our nanny. She loves the daylight time "off." But when we do it, it's very clear that it's an option for her, not an obligation. Unfortunately, if you stick up for yourself, they could fire you. That's life. Make sure you bring this up in a good, calm, generous way, and see what they say. Be willing to compromise -- do it sometimes, but not as a matter of course. If they say their way or the highway, though, you need to quit.[/quote]
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