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[quote=Anonymous][quote]Op here

For the first week everything was fine. She kept telling me how the kids liked me and they talked about me when she got home. So I don't think they complained.

[b]To the idiot PP, no I wouldn't want her to sit in her car, but I am pretty sure that she is just coming up with reasons to come home and then have me still stay the full time. I feel that, if I she comes home, I should leave and I would only expect pay for hours worked. She often says "I left work early because I missed them so much!" but then expects me to stay from 3:30 to 10 
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I always let the kids have healthy foods at any time. She is extreme about it. If they want any food she says "yes". So while they have had 4 ho hos and 2 bags of chips, they have eaten no dinner.

For things that I have already said no to and the kids ask her, she tells me that she feels so bad when she "undermines" me but at this point I don't care. I feel like if she wants to spend so much time with her kids, she doesn't need a sitter and if she did she would have said that in the interview.[/quote]

There's your problem. If she is paying you, then you should stay for your entire scheduled time. If you want to go home when she gets home, then you need to work that out with her. It sounds like you have a split situation that you did not expect and do not want.

Sit down and have this discussion with her.[/quote]

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