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[quote=Anonymous]Our nanny as been with us for under 3 months, what would be the normal expectations around bonus in this situation? She has developed a good relationship with the kids. She has not been particularly proactive with some of the other kid related chores she agreed to do but has recently started improving, she is often late to work, and is not particularly good in her relationship with us as MB/DB, does not respond to messages or voicemails most of the time (she is quite moody, she takes it out in her communication with us, but not with the kids so I am glad for that). clearly there are lots of little things we need to discuss and we are planning a general meeting to catch up on issues soon and see how we can improve and also to see if there is something we as MB/DB can do to address the moodiness / communication issues. To just generally check how she feels about the role and if it is the right fit for her. I am not sure what is reasonable to give or for her to expect for a bonus in this situation. I do think she is slowly improving and hopefully after we chat things will definitely improve. It is hard to know what she is thinking (she does not really talk to us!!) but I am a little concerned that she might be expecting 2 weeks as a bonus and if she doesn't get it the relationship with us will actually deteriorate. Any thoughts? what would you as a nanny be expecting when you are only 3 months into a new job. I have had stellar nannies in the past and I have never had to have a performance review type meeting, nor ever questioned in my mind whether an excellenet bonus was warranted.[/quote]
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