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[quote=Anonymous]Op. Zero out of three of the above reasons are valid. You don't get it. Yes it is stressful for you.

She doesn't have to stay because you are having a baby. That isn't her responsibility in the least.

Her life plans have changed. Likely when she started and said she would stay through school she didn't know she would meet the man she wanted to marry.

She is doing what is best for her, and that is the person she needs to look out for. She probably loves your kids very much, but your attitude may be one of the reasons she is wanting out ASAP. You seem to have no idea how you come across.

If you want to be supportive, be excited for her and congratulate her on this new stage in her life. Tell her how much you appreciate the role she has played in your children's lives and that you hope you can stay in touch. Plan out her notice (how many weeks did she give) and you can maybe overlap and see if she is willing to orient the new nanny. Find a new nanny. Continue on with your life and let her continue on with hers. [/quote]

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