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[quote=Anonymous]I have been with my current family for two years.  They have been a great family so far and I get along with their three children (ages 3-6).  My daily duties require me to do the children's laundry, dishes, make their beds and clean up after them.  I would leave a daily log for both my MB and DB to look at and if they have any questions, we talk about them before I leave for the night (I work from 7:30am - 8 pm M-F and make $17/hr on the books).

I also organize their main family room once every 2 weeks, although for the past month MB has been working from home on Fridays so she said she would take care of the family room to lighten my work load (which I totally appreciate).  Yet, for the past month, she didn't do anything with the family room and it became a big mess.  I asked her if she wanted me to help her out, but she said she would eventually get to it since she wanted to purge the room of some toys.

She came home from work yesterday livid that I didn't organize the family room.  I was very confused because I offered, but she said she didn't want me to do it.  So this morning, I spent 4 hours organizing the room for her.

On top of that, for the past week my MB hasn't been communicating with me at all.  She comes home, says hello to her kids and brushes off anything I have to say.  I understand that she is probably tired from her commute and stressed out from work, but I can't help think that she is angry with me and that I will be fired (she fired her last nanny because she wasn't putting the kid's toys away in the correct places).  If there is something wrong with my performance, I want to know so I can fix it, but anytime I ask her, she just shrugs me off.  I go home every night stressed out.

Am I being too sensitive or is it time to look for something else?

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