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[quote=Anonymous]MB here. I agree with many posters that erring on the side of generosity and kindness is a good policy, but it also sounds like you really have gone above and beyond already. Deaths and the like can't be planned, but chronic lateness - in a work setting where significant consideration has been extended for leave and vacation - would be a red flag for me. Also, it sounds like you've been doing things that are catching up with you (not tracking leave for doctor's appts, etc...) so you need to reset that presumption w/ this nanny or handle it a little more proactively with the next nanny. You may be beyond the point of no return with this relationship, perhaps in part because the nanny has abused her privileges, and perhaps in part because you could have handled it better/more cleanly from the beginning. I don't condemn you as quickly as some of the other posters have, but this may be a difficult lesson to learn as an employer. Good luck, whatever you decide.[/quote]
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