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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Long story short, I'm a SAHM of a baby and am probably going to try to go back to work sometime in the next year. While it is not set in stone yet, as details come out, it is become a stronger and stronger possibility. DH and I would be able to pay on the higher end (at least according to this boards) and with DH's work schedule being strictly 8:30-6:30 (including commute) and mine being 7-4ish, we would only need a nanny for 40 hours a week and would seldom, if ever, need overtime. Now, the more I read some of these threads, the more scared I am of hiring a nanny. There are some great nannies who post on here, but I'm scared of getting the ones who bad mouth me behind my back, or who think I'm not involved in my kid's life, etc etc. Plus, I feel like as a first time MB, I'll probably make mistakes and then my nanny will think I'm the biggest bitch in the world. I don't know. DH and I were discussing it over dinner last night and I've realized how much this forum has made me second guess whether or not we should get a nanny. So nannies and MBs, please tell me that this forum isn't nearly as bad as it comes across and that you are happy with your arrangements!! I'd much rather DS have a nanny and have the one on one experience as well as have someone who truly cares about him during those 40 hours. [/quote] And why are you here?[/quote]
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