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[quote=Anonymous]MB here.  Find another nanny.

In my opinion (and limited experience) the parent/nanny relationship is non-negotiable.  If you hire good, competent nannies they will probably do just fine with your son and he'll likely grow to love them, even if it takes a while.  But a good working relationship between the employer and employee is a must.  You need your nanny to be your greatest ally and vice versa.  You need to to all be on the same side with regards to the care of your children.  You need to feel comfortable with her and not feel like you're treading on eggshells or harboring small resentments that grow over time.

It doesn't mean she's a bad nanny - it just means that she's not the best fit for your family.  Good for you for having a trial period that allows you to handle this professionally.

We have a terrific nanny and I trust her fully.  I still wouldn't want to be home all day with her for 5 months (and I'm sure she wouldn't want it either).  I can't imagine spending a maternity leave w/ someone in the house annoying me all the time - let alone someone who is helping me raise my child.

Don't feel guilty.  You know what you need and want to do.  You'll find another nanny who does well w/ your child, this time you just need to make sure that he/she does well with you also.

Good luck![/quote]

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