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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We do a nanny share and we treat it like this...we do what is right for the nanny on our end...we pay payroll taxes, unemployement, etc. We actually pay it on top of her salary, so she gets what we negotiated in hand. We don't worry what the other family is doing...because if SHIT hit the fan, we can stand up honestly and say that we did right by the Nanny.[/quote] You're right, that covers your end legally. But I'm always baffled by share families with this attitude. It really does matter what the other family is doing. Speaking from experience, if I'm in a share where one family treats me like crap or skirts the laws/contract and the other family, while covering everything on their end, doesn't have my back when dealing with these issues, I'm going to look for a new share. I'm not going to try to split up the share and go with the family that didn't have my back. You will be left without the nanny you hired even though you did everything right. I would suggest that OP completely ignore this advice. You need a share family that is on the same page as you, parent style-wise, expectation-wise, and how you will treat the nanny. [/quote]
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