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[quote=Anonymous]I work from home a lot, and I think it also would help at least with the 3 year old to set some ground rules that let him know who is in charge. I have a 2 1/2 year old who is sometimes like this, and our rule is that when nanny arrives, nanny is in charge. Even if I have to be out (and I go to great lengths to stay in my office, door shut, out of sight), my son can't go to me for anything - want milk? Ask nanny if you can have some. Want to play a game? maybe nanny will play with you if you ask nicely. By showing him that he can't turn to me, I am helping establish her as decision maker. Same goes for rushing out when my son is being a beast. They have to find their own rhythm. I agree talking issues over with her (we sometimes do this at naptime) and letting her know she doesn't have to worry that you blame her for the phases the kids are in will help her feel confident and ease the transition.[/quote]
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