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[quote=Anonymous]I take care of 1 year old triplets (13 months). It is a lot of fun, but it does keep me on my toes. I've found the way to make it through the day (I work 10 hour days) is to have the entire day planned and pretty structured. I plan a few activities for each day, then leave time in between naps and feedings for free play. MB has a 12 year old neighbor girl who comes over and helps her with things, typically bath and bedtime routines, but I know she comes over for most of the day. Recently, MB has been having her come over while I am there in order "to provide an extra set a hands". While at first I thought it was great having someone to help out, I am now finding it to be a bit annoying. It almost feels like I have another kid to take care of. I feel like I have to constantly observe the way she cares for the girls, sometimes she is a bit rough with them, she struggles with diaper changes, she microwaves the bottles (which to me is a big no-no), and many other things. I am wondering if it is my place to tell MB I don't want this Mother's Helper around when I'm there, but worry that MB will be offended as will the 12 year old girl. Also, do you have any advice on working with a helper?[/quote]

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