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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This doesn't make sense. Why are you paying for her prescriptions and lawyer fees? Is she getting paid enough money to survive without needing your family to give her loans? I would NEVER ask my employer for a loan, no matter how big or small. It's totally inappropriate for her to think of your family as a bank who will just loan her money anytime she needs it. What does she now need a loan for that costs thousands of dollars? I don't blame your husband for getting annoyed. Just curious, how many hours does she work and how much is she paid a week? I'm a nanny and I'm sure many other nannies on here will agree that this is wrong. I think it's great that you love your nanny but giving her loans is probably the dumbest thing you could do. Sorry you are in this predicament- you will have to learn how to say no to her. [/quote]

She works full time 1000 a week. Plus I pay for a lot of "extras" that come up. I appreciate your feedback. She is really wonderful and I'm sure that money is tight for her family, but I'm starting to feel taken advantage of. I hate feeling like saying "no" to her makes me feel cheap or that it will upset her and then have her care for my kids. [/quote]

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