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[quote=Anonymous]I think that's the problem - the other stuff. For instance, if this were our au pair, we'd have no issue with this - we'd think it was a great idea. Because she is a great au pair and responsible, does not let her social life interfere with work, and is very respectful of what we think is best for our kids, we know that if she suggested this activity with a friend, it would be because she truly thinks it would be a fun experience for the kids and educational. EVEN if it would also be fun for her to see a friend during the work day. Nothing wrong with killing two birds with one stone. But if this were, say, a prior au pair who we had lots of issues with (and eventually rematched) - I'd feel the same as you, because I'd know the au pair wasn't necessarily planning that activity with my children's best interests in mind.[/quote]
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