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[quote=Anonymous]I don't have any experience in your situation, however I will say that as a nanny, it is extremely frustrating and confusing when I get mixed messages from MB/DB. If puts me in an awkward position of having to choose whose directions to follow, and inevitably someone isn't happy. I'd suggest working things out amongst yourself before presenting her with directions/making a decision regarding a request. If she puts one of you on the spot, tell her that you will discuss it with your DH and then give her an answer. As for him suddenly wanting input and giving conflicting directions, that would upset me. I would suggest delegating certain tasks to him in the future and having him generally more involved. You don't get to sit back and do nothing, then start calling shots as you see fit. [/quote]
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