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[quote=Anonymous]Why would you tell her? That tells me you don't have the greatest boundaries and probably need to work on that. It isn't her role to be your personal support for your eating disorder, or to feel bad for you or whatever you are hoping to gain from telling her. She doesn't need to know this as your employer. She may be friendly and trustworthy and you may get a long great but she isn't your confidant or your 'true' friend. She pays you, she evaluates your performance, she determines your value to her household, she sets the expectations for our role and responsibilities...these are not things that friends do - these are things that employers do. Maybe she does disclose her own personal issues to you and consider you a friend and a close confidant. If so then she has poor boundaries and you need to be the one that maintains professional boundaries. [/quote]
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