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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You both dropped the ball, not just her. You also should have been prepared to negotiate, as most sitters will take the rate you list in the ad with a grain of salt. Also you said this was a working interview. She very well may feel that she hasn't accepted the job yet and is still free to negotiate. You can move on or not, but realize that your other options will also likely try to negotiate. She has just as much a right to set her rates as you do. It's just the way this industry works. [b]You would presume to tell a plumber, chef or gardener how much they will work for would you[/b]?[/quote] Not exactly the same situation. [/quote] Exactly the same situation. The only difference is that a plumber isn't going bring his rate or fee up. He'll perform the service and expect payment. [/quote] Actually I've negotiated with plumbers before if they were doing several services at one time I negotiated a lower rate. I also always ask rates ahead of time and if I think it's too high I wouldn't hire them. Same goes for A gardner, painter, etc. [/quote] Exactly! You negotiated with them. You didn't tell them what you are going to pay them and then act miffed when they say my rate is $X. The sitter should have been more up front about her rate, but there is nothing wrong with her telling you her rate and expecting to negotiate something that works for you both. [/quote]
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