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[quote=Anonymous]I belong to a pretty close group of nannies and have become super close to one in particular. This nanny and I break off from the group and hang out together on a fairly regular basis. Last week this nanny confided in me she had been raped the night before. Her eyes had been red when we met up that day but I assumed it was allergies. It wasnt, it was from crying. Anyway, since then, this nanny is barely functioning and we've spent all day every day (work day) together so I can mange her charges while she basically zones us all out. She doesn't want to talk about it but it's very obvious she isn't doing well. I don't have an issue with helping with her charges - twin 14mo olds- as they are very comfortable with me and my charge (10mo old). My question is at what point, if any, do I talk to her mb that her nanny needs help and I've been her "defacto nanny" for at this point now, a week. I don't hang out with my nanny friend at all outside of work and so have no idea what, if anything, her family knows. My friend desperately needs help and other than talking to her mb, I'm at a loss as to what to do ?[/quote]
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