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[quote=Anonymous]Congrats on the twins!

I have a job similar to what you are describing, except I'm alone with them a good part of the time.  It started out two evenings a week from 530-930 and it was one child.  There are  four kids now and ive been with them for 8 years.  I don't know that i planned on being there so long, I was new to the area and looking to make some extra money.  The position just kind of evolved over the years and it works.  I'm usually there four nights a week.

I agree with the PP about wanting an adult for this position.  Three kids will be a lot of work, especially with twins and a toddler.  You will want someone with experience.   If you find someone that really needs the job, they will be the more dependable candidate.  The family i work with has a full time nanny and a summer nanny in addition to me.  The summer nanny is college age and a lot of fun for the kids.  But, she is always calling out when something else comes up that she would rather be doing.  I'm not saying that all college kids would do this but just something to consider.

A typical night for me is dinner prep, bath, story/playtime and bed.  Two kids are in school now so I help with homework.  I don't do laundry but help out with most other things.  Loading/ unloading dishwasher, sweeping, organizing, etc...   They have never asked me to do this but they pay me well and after the kids go to bed, I don't have anything to do.

When I started out I was making $15 per hour.  I now make $23 per hour.  Obviously you won't need to pay that much,  I would think around $15 would be a fair place to start.   You being there doesn't necessarily make the job easier.  In fact, it can make it harder.  The twins will be a big adjustment for your toddler and he will most likely be very needy in the beginning.  I went through this each time they had another baby.

I would try listservs, your daycare center, preschools, etc...

I think a contract is a good idea.  It can be informal but just something that lays out expectations for each of you.   Being part time, I don't get any benefits with my job.  The hours aren't guaranteed so if they cancel last minute or take vacation, I don't make the money.  I should have negotiated this but as I mentioned earlier, the position evolved to what it is now.  I love the family and they treat me well so I don't make a big deal if it.  I would definitely negotiate this for a future position.

Good luck ![/quote]

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