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[quote=Anonymous]I am in the same boat as the OP! I nanny for 4 Mon-Fri and dread coming in on Mondays due to the mess, poor behavior and lack of discipline from MB and DB. I too, have implemented chore charts, behavioral incentives but they are not done when I am not present. When I am there, the charges are well behaved but if parents are around listening, behavior and general structure go right out the window. My charges are much younger so I have had to adjust my expectations. I did find it helpful to type out my concerns and goals, give a copy to MB and go over them one by one. She went over them later with DB. We talked about problem areas, time frames of behavior, bad habits and the need to correct them. She was appreciative of the feedback and almost immediately confessed that she needed to be better about discipline.....however....2 months later, we are back where we were for the most part.[/quote]
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