Reply to au pair throwing a party when you're not home

Forum Index » Au Pair Discussion

Reply to "au pair throwing a party when you're not home"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Agree with PP. the underage thing would bother me. Maybe put a limit on the number of friends allowed over when you are out of town and tell her you'd prefer she not have parties at your house. Also maybe ask a neighbor to check in or keep an eye/ear out for anything rowdy just to put your mind at ease. A 20 person party with an underage host sounds like horrible judgement on your APs part, and warrants some more hard boundaries. [/quote]

I think that's my issue more than the people at my house.  Our previous au pair would have parties - she was 21, we had met all of her friends because they would come over for dinner or hang out with us sometimes on the weekends, she would tell me the full details, and she had proven herself to be more than trustworthy.  This one, I have overall maturity concerns about and this seems like just another in a long line of minor issues that are making me really question her judgement.  I hate to put down boundaries, but I don't trust her to be smart about this or to respect our house.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics