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[quote=Anonymous]If you really trust and value this nanny then maybe you need to find out if she's really being pressured by the other family, and you might need to talk directly with them. Perhaps they need a more robust solution than she can provide but she doesn't feel able to say no to them. But clearly you get to say no to this. I think it's partially an issue of how many parties need to hear the "no". My nanny wouldn't be very strong in the face of needy parents and a kid she cares about - I know she'd almost never be able to say no, so I would have to do it for you. It is quite inappropriate of the other family to continue to do this. A couple of times in a pinch, sure - and hopefully that courtesy goes both ways. But it sounds like this is becoming routine and that either needs to be ok with you (and there needs to be a change in the financial compensation to reflect that) or you get to say no. Good luck.[/quote]
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