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[quote=Anonymous]I'm an MB, and we have this sometimes with one or both of our twins and our nanny. I understand that there are phases like this, I'm thrilled that the attachment with/between our kids and nanny is so good, I know they know I'm their mother, etc.... and it is still hard for me sometimes. I think talking w/ the MB, acknowledging what's going on, is a good idea. You can tell her you're sorry - these phases are always hard and you are doing what you can to minimize it (the quick, calm goodbye, the pictures and Mom/Dad references during the day etc...). I also like the PPs idea of the "return prep rituals". Assuming she's a rational person the MB understands this on an intellectual level and hopefully won't resent you, but talking with her about it could make it much easier for her. If nothing else that allows you to acknowledge that it may be hard for her, which is considerate of you.[/quote]
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