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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Jeez people. These are grown women! If you trust them enough to care for your children and to live with your family, she should enough maturity and good judgement to navigate an adult relationship and being away from home. I imagine if she can't, those qualities would show in other aspects of her life. [/quote] I think I would characterize APs more as "growing women." And although you hope they are mature and have good judgment, that's one of the things you are trying to assess when selecting. And it is always a bit of a risk. plus, you are trying to asses the personality and fit with your own family. So I don't think it's too strange to factor in romantic attachments as part of the overall dynamics. No one is saying APs can't have boyfriends. But you are right that if she can't handle it, it would show up in other aspect-- that's kind of the point here. [/quote]
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