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[quote=Anonymous]Our current AP has a boyfriend from her home country. He's been to visit twice, both times for about 2 weeks (we're 9 months in). He's likable, and in some ways it's been fun having him around when he has visited. That's a lot (maybe too much)--but we have had trouble saying "no" to the requests to visit. We have allowed him to stay at out house, but not in AP's bedroom. I think if we had said no, he would have come anyway and found other lodging (that was what she told us initially), and then it would have created some resentments from the AP. Overall, it's mostly been fine, but I would say it's been distracting to her throughout her time with us because she's always texting him and skyping whenever she can, which in my opinion has diminished the experience she could have had otherwise if she didn't feel so tied to him. I think I prefer no boyfriend, but I don't think it's a deal breaker. It really depends on the individuals. [/quote]
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