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[quote=Anonymous]Jeez, I'm sorry.  I'm an MB.  My kids love our nanny to pieces and she loves them right back.  I can't imagine being so insecure as to be upset by what you described.

I guess you do have to respect her wishes but maybe if you have a good enough relationship with her otherwise you could talk w/ her a bit more.  Maybe something like "I, obviously, will do as you ask.  I do want you to know though that I'm not being dishonest when I tell him I love him - I actually do.  I'm a nanny because I love kids and your son is very dear to me.  He's a (insert some genuine reasons why the kid is lovable to you) little boy and even though I'm his nanny, not a parent, and possibly only in his life for a short time, I care deeply for him.  I hope that is ok with you."

I would hope that an MB, even if deeply insecure, might respond to someone saying they care about her child, while simultaneously respecting her primacy and the difference in roles.

Also, there are other ways you can respond very warmly to the child that let him feel loved and special (as I'm sure you do a 100 times a day) so being asked not to use those three words doesn't mean he can't feel cherished by you.

But overall this kind of stinks for you, and him.  And actually, probably for the horrifically insecure mother as well.  :-([/quote]

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