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[quote=Anonymous]I think opinions on this subject are always going to be split because, when it comes down to it, people have different views on what "love" is. I'm a Nanny working for my 3rd family. The way I normally go through this is, if I've been working for a family for some time and the child tells me they love me, I tell them I love them too. Mostly because these are young kids who like telling people they love them and like hearing it back. And as their nanny, a person who cares, nurtures and plays with them almost daily, I don't feel that it's inappropriate for them to say it to me if they want to. I think the mother is jealous. The last family I worked for I became VERY attached to the kids, 3 and 1. I think because the parents weren't very affectionate and so the kids turned to me for that. The three year old told me every day that she loved me and I told her I loved her too, because I did! The mother I worked for became jealous over the kids attachment to me, and ended up being the one that confused the 3 year old, not me. Unfortunately though, your going to have to respect the parent's wishes : / [/quote]
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